Crossdressing Part One: Accepting Who You Are

About the article

Hello my name is Josh, but sometimes I am referred to spil Josalyn. Yes I am a crossdresser. What does this mean? It means I like to wear clothing of the opposite lovemaking. Truthfully I feel that clothes are nothing more than just lumps of cloth and history has shown that clothing should not be subjected to one gender, but I also feel that it is significant to help those who battle with themselves on this subject weather your a crossdresser or someone who is close te any way with a crossdresser.

This article is geared towards helping te taking the very first step into accepting that this is who you are. For those who may know someone who crossdresses this can help you spil well.

Questioning yourself

Some crossdressers begin early on ter there lives. Maybe spil a five year old you attempted on your sisters clothes or got into your moms makeup. Some may not have commenced until late te life, perhaps you and your spouse did a gender interchange costume for Halloween and you loved it and dreamed to do it more. For mij I always loved the idea of wear ladies clothes spil a youthful child. It wasgoed senior year that I got to ultimately practice it spil I wasgoed a dame for Halloween that year. Unnecessary to say I loved it and the lady I borrower the clothes from helped mij to get began.

No matter when you embark you’ll always go through the process of questioning who you are and why are you doing this. You may even find yourself purging and ending that part of you. For some thay’re fine with that, but others will find that it is too much a part of them and their more pitiful than when they crossdressed. The questions will always run through your mind.

-Am I transgender?

-Whats wrong with mij?

-Why do I did this?

-How will I be accepted?

Thesis are the questions that this article will touch upon, a few will even be talked about ter a bit more depth ter zometeen articles. Reminisce thesis are ordinario questions that will run through your mind when discovering who you are.

Is this wrong?

No. Contrary to popular belief, your doing nothing wrong. Some may feel a different opinion and they’re entitled to that, but if your blessed then all that matters is how you feel. You will hear of people telling you that your going to hell and the bible says not to do it. I will get to this more ter a zometeen article but when the bible wasgoed written high-heeled shoes, skirts and swim suits didn’t exist. People will attempt to make you feel like what your doing is wrong, but it is not there decision. Do not let others waterput it into your mind that your doing something wrong, also don’t let your own mind start to think this.

Should I zekering?

This is not a yes or a no response. This is a private choice and only you can response it. Some zekering and are blessed with their decision, but if it is a true part of who you, you may regret stopping. Do not make the decision to zekering lightly. Also if you do make that choice be sure it’s for yourself.

Te some cases doing it for yourself may not be spil effortless. Having to be married and have children for example. This is a case that if you do find that crossdressing is a part of you then serious discussion is needed with your fucking partner to help them understand who you are, and those who are married or ter a relationship with a crossdresser don’t discount it or waterput them down. Hear them out, you don’t have to agree with it but at least understand where they are coming from.

Am I Gay?

This is another one that is open to individual preference. Being gay and being a crossdresser do not necessarily go mitt te palm. Your sexiness refers your attraction to the opposite or the same gender. You may also be attracted to womanish or masculine persona regardless of gender. Your clothes however is not the reason for your sexiness. Like your attraction to the zuigeling of clothes you like to wear, your sexiness is also a part of discovering yourself. If you truly want to know then attempt it. See what it is that attracts you.

Now I’m not telling just go out and find random people. Like dating ter high schoolgebouw let it toebijten naturally, and which everzwijn way you detect don’t be frightened of who you are.

Am I Transgender?

By now you’ve realized that there are questions that can’t be answered online. Some come from learning about yourself. This one is especially harsh because its not like determining what videogame to play. This one you have to truly search yourself and be sure that its you. Most all crossdressers have had this question but the ones who havn’t made the transition have discovered there not.

However I shouldn’t say all who havn’t transition found that there not transgender. I do have friends who want to transition but may not have the means or certain life situations make it difficult. I have friends that have made the transition or are te the process. They,ve had a difficult journey but are blessed to have made the choice to be who they are. You may not even went to go total transition. Maybe you only want a more womanish bod.

What’s wrong with mij?

Absolutly nothing. Truthfully this is just the same spil the very first question but is a reacurring question spil many will have you belive that you are sick and ter need of help. You are not wrong, do not permit others to waterput this into your mind.

Why do I do this?

There are a multitude of answers to this one. One reaction may be that it’s a fetish. For some that is the case. It’s a sexual desire, or a fantasy for them. They may do the act and when it has run it’s course their good to go, or others may want to live life te that fantasy all the time.

It may be that you just like the clothes or the makeup. Its more than just a fetish, it’s a ordinario part of your life. Maybe you like the flow of a lace or the feel of silk. I’m not telling that some garments wont give you a bit of a turn on, but it’s not the main premise spil to why you do it.

Maybe you’re doing it just to see how it feels. You may even zekering after a while because it’s not you. Their are many reasons, and knowing why you like will help to understand you. Think of how dose it make you feel sexually, or maybe it just makes you feel beautiful and you just want to spend the day like that. Understanding your reasons will help you to understand yourself, but don’t feel ashamed for whatever the reason may be.

How will I be Accepted?

This one is the big one. It’s very likely the most significant reaction. Don’t worry what others think. You have to accept yourself very first. Be certain ter who you are. When you know yourself everything else will fall into place.

Truth is no one is 100 procent accepted. There is always something about each of us that someone else isn’t going to like. Those who do accept you will voorstelling that they truly care, but you have to accept yourself.

My gf always told mij when went out that it’s just mij and hier, no one else mattered. She helped mij learn to accept this side of mij, and she still loves mij being mij.

Accepting yourself and discovering who you are can be difficult, but your not doing it for the public, your doing it for you. Keep it ter your mind the importance of knowing who you are.

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