Online Dating Emails for Men—An example that gets a 50% response rate from women – Online Dating Advice for Fellows

Today I’m going to take some time and talk about online dating emails. I’ve bot gettinga finta a few questions about this lately…

Which is fine news because sending emails is truly the 2nd step te the online dating process.

That means you guys are getting to the point where you have a profile that is working!

Also, guys… after a year of doing this webpagina, things are truly taking off and wij are heading te the direction I want to see us go te.

I want to thank you for that.

I love the email below because this stud is sharing something that’s worked for him. My hope is that spil wij grow spil a community, wij will help each other out and truly connect, make friendships, and become a place where guys can indeed make a difference for each other.

Anyway, here’s a message I got from someone yesterday.

I came across your webpagina a few days ago after kicking off my 2nd round of online dating this week. I just desired to switch my profile to get more hits than before. I wasgoed eyeing 3-4 women a week the last time I did this about four months ago, and dreamed to better weed out some of

I’m not yet ready to buy your book, I’m going to see what my very first

five dates are like very first. And I have to switch my profile to match

better some of your suggestions. This is a excellent webpagina! I’m just tired

of putting ter the effort emailing very first. But I would like to share a

good very first email that seems to work on more than half the women I attempt it on. It’s a zuigeling of “thanks” for the quality articles I’ve already

read on this webpagina.

I don’t know why it works, but when I see one of those stupid lists

from women about what they’re looking for, I make a smart-assed

comment on each of the points ter the list, like this latest one I’m

pasting below. She replied with an “okay, you got my attention,” and commenced telling mij a little bit about herself. I don’t know if you

want to use it for an article, just wait until after my very first date

with hier, tho’. ??

One question: You mentioned somewhere about a secret technology to get profiles at the top of searches, kleuter of “tricking” the system. Is that information ter one of your books, or is that a secret you won’t let go of?

Anyway, thanks again for this service,

Here, let’s have some joy:

-Would Laugh at my stupid jokes

So…how stupid wij talking here?

-Would Hold my arm just because

Especially when crossing the street.

-Would Smooch mij spontaneously

Wij’ll wait to see after the very first date or two goes well.

-Would Hold mij like he never wants to let go

I promise I won’t crush you!

-Would Call mij just to say goodnight

But it’s too early to even have your phone number!

-Would Cuddle with mij every night that wij are together and when wij aren’t, he’s thinking about cuddling with mij

Well, what’s best for mij is if I lie on my side like this, and you

spoon up beside mij, your arm draped overheen mij. If wij do it the other

way- (rolls overheen) I get your hair caught ter my mouth and I gasp te

-Would Stir the hair from my eyes and then smooch mij

Do you have a problem with your hair overheen your eyes?

-Would Sing to mij at random moments

You Truly don’t want mij doing that.

-Would Smooch mij te the pouring rain

But what if wij catch cold!?

-Would Make mij the happiest woman alive.

Wij’ll even get you a Guinness Book write-up.

Very first of all, the way I “trick” the system is something truly effortless to do, and I’ll write that up te the next postbode. Actually, maybe I’ll just give you the entire write-up that I give to guys who pay mij to write their profiles for them. Either way, here’s a verbinding to that postbode.

I indeed like what “Tim” has done here. He mentioned that he’s getting about half the women he writes something like this to respond…

And guys, let’s not kid ourselves. If you are getting a 50% response rate on very first emails you’re sending, YOU’RE KICKING SOME SERIOUS Bum.

So… here are my comments on WHY this works, and HOW to make it work even better…

Very first of all, you know I’m always harping on you guys to write your messages so that the woman knows you read hier profile. Well, this mechanism leaves no doubt that you’ve read hier profile. That in-and-of itself is a excellent begin and will differentiate you from most guys.

Also, it shows he’s got a good sense of humor. Something that I don’t believe is attractive to women on its own. (Read more here.) But it shows social intelligence, which women find very attractive.

And speaking of social intelligence, his responses to hier list voorstelling that this fellow gets it!

-Would Hold my mitt just because

Especially when crossing the street.

Tells hier that he doesn’t take hier too gravely, and he’s going to hold hier palm like you would a little kid’s spil they cross the street.

-Would Smooch mij spontaneously

Wij’ll wait to see after the very first date or two goes well.

Sweet. This shows that he is one, going to screen hier before he determines if she gets a smooch. this proves that he has options and standards. And two, he’s willing to take things slow, albeit you embark throwing comments like this out there and it ups your odds of taking hier to leger on the very first date.

-Would Cuddle with mij every night that wij are together and when wij

aren’t, he’s thinking about cuddling with mij

Well, what’s best for mij is if I lie on my side like this, and you

spoon up beside mij, your arm draped overheen mij. If wij do it the other

way- (rolls overheen) I get your hair caught ter my mouth and I gasp ter

Nice. Good imagery here along with an assumption that the two of you will be spooning. And it’s kinda lovely with the gagging on hier hair.

-Would Budge the hair from my eyes and then smooch mij

Do you have a problem with your hair overheen your eyes?

-Would Smooch mij te the pouring rain

But what if wij catch cold!?

Both of thesis are beautiful! He totally overlooks the “kissing” part and concentrates on the hair te hier eyes or getting sick. It’s like he’s uninterested te hier sexually. And this will often get women to be more sexual with you. I can explain why ter a straks postbode, it’s a power thing.

-Would Make mij the happiest woman alive.

Wij’ll even get you a Guinness Book write-up.

This is just nice. It’s also superb because it has a subliminal says that others approve and they will have the adoration of others. And yes, I know that might be opening up it a little, but I can assure you that when you say things like that, you tour those reactions ter women.

I said I’d demonstrate some ways to improve on this technique… So what about the 50% who don’t response?

How do wij get them to react? You know what?

After thinking about it some more… Wij DON’T.

This message does a Good job of filtering out women who are going to be more trouble than they are worth. Half the battle ter online dating is to keep from wasting your time with women who you aren’t going to work with no matter what. It’s why I went on and on te this postbode about women you’re better off staying the hell away from.

Yep, wij might be able to get the response rate up to 80%, but that 30% reserve is just going to suck up our time, be a ache ter the butt, and keep us from focusing on the women wij are going to click with.

So leave behind them if they don’t get it.

Oh, and notice what he DOESN’T do.

  • No groveling.
  • No butt smooching.
  • No mention of how hot she is.
  • No attempting to “connect” with hier on stupid shit.
  • No individual life story.

Now, go back up te this postbode and click through to the linksaf you are interested te. there is some excellent stuff te those other posts.

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